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  • The crown
    عضو متميز
    • Mar 2007
    • 2396

    #1

    Early marriage for girls

    every one...
    *The early marriage for girls it is phenomenon worth we talk about
    ** In the past, the early marriage is account advice from mother and grandma
    Well... Are you agree early marriage for girls or not?
    * And why you think that?
    * Do you think the family/parents force the girl to marriage someone?
    * Can you give me some reasons of early marriage!!
    *What advantage and disadvantage?
    *And... Do you know real story for this phenomenon? Tell me what happened for her!..
    I'm going to wait your opinions

  • جلالة الملكة
    عضو متميز
    • Jan 2007
    • 3719

    #2
    السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته

    I don't agree the early marriage . I think the

    girls have to be old enough to choose the right man ,

    to uderstand the real married life and to accept
    responsabilities

    Thanx Crowny

    I wait for more openions

    حدّ السحاااااب و فوق روس الجباااالي و أنا جلالة الملكة %

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    • الشاعرالساهر
      عضو فعال

      • Apr 2005
      • 821

      #3
      الرد: Early marriage for girls

      i agree with early marrie caze it's gonna be helpfull for the girls and let her foucas on her marrie lifw and her kids

      we have a lot of old girls here in KSA unmarrie
      how they will live without marrie????????

      the girl will keep studing until when?
      until she die??????
      when she want to finish her education and married , at that time she will loss a lot
      caze at least she will be 25 or 26 and how old her husbend would be 34 or 35 ??

      and when she graduate and get job she will be pregnant and tierd than will quite working and stay home

      i agree with this phenomenon to get married early

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      • Chocolate Manic
        عضو فعال
        • Jul 2006
        • 254

        #4
        الرد: Early marriage for girls

        I personally believe that there are two sides to this phenomenon. The good side is that when you have kids at a young age they will grow to be your closest friend.I see a lot of this situation in k.S.A. However. if you consider the negative side then you will see that for a lady to giveup her dreams and hopes is devastating. In the Arabic world we do have a lot of forced mariges. They some times are succesfull and some times they break up like shattered pieces of glass.A girl has her right as a human being to choose her path and dreams.Some girls are stong enough to make it through marriage when it is unplanned. Some are weak and they will ust give up on life. Im not saying that girls should follow thier dreams and not marr at all. I bet you there is not a girl who has not considered her wedding day details. i personally used to keep a box and fill it with as much details as possiable. the point is this. you must learn and know that you have to establish yourself as one complete unit in society. and when all you have is a succesful unit then and only then could you go and search for another half that does not complete you but that makes your life more adjustable and enchanting. i think this is teh right path that every girlshould take.
        ONE NIGHT I HAD THE STRANGEST DREAM
        I NEVER DREAMED BEFORE
        I DREAMED THE WORLD HAD ALL AGREED TO PUT AN END TO WAR

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        • The crown
          عضو متميز
          • Mar 2007
          • 2396

          #5
          الرد: السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته

          اضيف في الأساس بواسطة جلالة الملكة
          I don't agree the early marriage . I think the


          girls have to be old enough to choose the right man ,

          to uderstand the real married life and to accept
          responsabilities

          Thanx Crowny

          thanks alot Queen , yeah you'r right

          this is for girl from 14 -19

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          • The crown
            عضو متميز
            • Mar 2007
            • 2396

            #6
            الرد: Early marriage for girls

            اضيف في الأساس بواسطة الشاعرالساهر
            i agree with early marrie caze it's gonna be helpfull for the girls and let her foucas on her marrie lifw and her kids

            we have a lot of old girls here in KSA unmarrie
            how they will live without marrie????????

            the girl will keep studing until when?
            until she die??????
            when she want to finish her education and married , at that time she will loss a lot
            caze at least she will be 25 or 26 and how old her husbend would be 34 or 35 ??

            and when she graduate and get job she will be pregnant and tierd than will quite working and stay home

            i agree with this phenomenon to get married early

            did you mean the girl , shoud be think about marriege from for example 20 years or what..
            coz I think the girl of 14 years she cant do thing like take care for her children or husbend

            ****
            so however thank you for passing

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            • The crown
              عضو متميز
              • Mar 2007
              • 2396

              #7
              الرد: Early marriage for girls

              O.K

              Do you think the father can force his daughter to marriage someone?

              maybe this is one reasone to early marriag!!

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              • الشاعرالساهر
                عضو فعال

                • Apr 2005
                • 821

                #8
                الرد: Early marriage for girls

                14 is not that age for marrie
                i mean starting from 17

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                • promise22
                  عضو متميز
                  • Oct 2006
                  • 5230

                  #9
                  الرد: Early marriage for girls

                  السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
                  I married in an age early.(15 years). i faced many of the difficulties..
                  But i support the early matrimony .and the girl seems as a spring rose in it .
                  .But there a condition choose the human deserve this rose
                  Greeting to u sweety

                  اللهم انصر اخواننا المسلمين في كل مكان
                  (اصلح نفسك , تصلح اسرتك,يصلح مجتمعك )

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                  • الوحيد
                    عضو بارز
                    • Sep 2000
                    • 1725

                    #10
                    الرد: Early marriage for girls

                    Let them marriage no body. this is the solution.
                    Let them dreams, and drew pictures for that husband coming from mythes, riding his white horse, singing and dancing. Don't let them face the reality of faction.

                    Okay, that's what you want for them, until what the train passed them.
                    Stop. this was the modest proposal by me .
                    To be frank, I agree. They may get troubles, but not as much as what may get vis versa.
                    من كان منا بلا خطيئة فليجلس على اكتافنا

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                    • Chocolate Manic
                      عضو فعال
                      • Jul 2006
                      • 254

                      #11
                      الرد: Early marriage for girls

                      why are you so pessimistic? i believe that a women completes a man. why should his other half be denied and dismmissed as a human being who has teh right to build her dream.
                      ONE NIGHT I HAD THE STRANGEST DREAM
                      I NEVER DREAMED BEFORE
                      I DREAMED THE WORLD HAD ALL AGREED TO PUT AN END TO WAR

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                      • Chocolate Manic
                        عضو فعال
                        • Jul 2006
                        • 254

                        #12
                        الرد: Early marriage for girls

                        think about it and tehn give me your opinon'
                        ONE NIGHT I HAD THE STRANGEST DREAM
                        I NEVER DREAMED BEFORE
                        I DREAMED THE WORLD HAD ALL AGREED TO PUT AN END TO WAR

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                        • The crown
                          عضو متميز
                          • Mar 2007
                          • 2396

                          #13
                          الرد: Early marriage for girls

                          اضيف في الأساس بواسطة الشاعرالساهر
                          14 is not that age for marrie
                          i mean starting from 17

                          yeah I understanded what you mean

                          Thank you agine

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                          • The crown
                            عضو متميز
                            • Mar 2007
                            • 2396

                            #14
                            الرد: Early marriage for girls

                            اضيف في الأساس بواسطة promise22
                            السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
                            I married in an age early.(15 years). i faced many of the difficulties..
                            But i support the early matrimony .and the girl seems as a spring rose in it .
                            .But there a condition choose the human deserve this rose
                            Greeting to u sweety

                            Woooow that's so wonderful
                            thank you so much

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                            • The crown
                              عضو متميز
                              • Mar 2007
                              • 2396

                              #15
                              الرد: Early marriage for girls

                              اضيف في الأساس بواسطة الوحيد
                              Let them marriage no body. this is the solution.

                              Let them dreams, and drew pictures for that husband coming from mythes, riding his white horse, singing and dancing. Don't let them face the reality of faction.

                              Okay, that's what you want for them, until what the train passed them.
                              Stop. this was the modest proposal by me .

                              To be frank, I agree. They may get troubles, but not as much as what may get vis versa.

                              so this is your opinion ..

                              thank you

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                              • sad85man
                                عضو متألق
                                • Nov 2003
                                • 2448

                                #16
                                الرد: Early marriage for girls

                                hmmmm thanks crown for starting this interesting topic, i think

                                to get a result we should make some standards

                                for me i think the age of early marriage is from 13 to 16

                                and i dont agree with this at all

                                and from 17 to 22 this is the best age for marriage

                                but with some precautions

                                and for me the golden age for making a family is immediately

                                after finishing studying coz in this case we guarantee that

                                she has totally grown up mentally and she can take all the responsibilities

                                thats my opinion and in the first place no one should

                                force his daughter to get married at any age

                                and what i want to say that I'm with the early marriage for

                                the men for may reasons and we may discus that later

                                thanks a lot and good luck for all

                                SADMAN

                                ســــــــادمـــــــــان

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                                • The crown
                                  عضو متميز
                                  • Mar 2007
                                  • 2396

                                  #17
                                  الرد: Early marriage for girls

                                  . thank you so much , I'm so agree with you about golden age. well, I'm so happy for your sharing

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